Well,, you know.. lately.. there is one routine that i always do before i go to sleep.. talking with someone over the phone.. with the one that i had telling you before (hope u remember :D) . Actually i just cut off the line with him, because he has one business to be taken tomorrow then he has to sleep more quickly.. so.. finally i just got here.. hehee..
he isn't blessed with a scriptwriter to produce the perfect words and actions that will have women swooning. but i really really really like to talk with him.. i dont know !!! i just do.. he Knowing what he want to say and i feel warm by taking to him.. it like "Instant mood-boosters" you just talk and the you happy.. thats it.. as simple as it..
i was often reminding him that how much i care and notice about him, but thats nothing.. he didnt need that.. then everytime i have a chance to talk with him , i am trying to be good listener. so that i learn about his deepest fears, convictions, desires, and hopes. Remember what he tells me and always be prepared to listen to his viewpoint about things. Even if i don't agree, but i think it is vital to know the real reasons behind his viewpoint so that i can reach a compromise. Simply knowing i prepared to listen and that i do is enough. its the best way to let him know that i am listening, and that i interested. its awesome when he always ask questions that provoke me to say more, not just a yes or no question. its prove that he enjoy and want to continue our conversation as i wanted to and i am just happy with that much.. hahaa.. i love his characteristic : Having a good sense of humor and witty. really help people encouraging to share a laugh together. it brings happiness to everyone including me.
make me feel relax easily and see the funniest side of life...
Thank you,
